Figuring It Out

Finding Your Way

If you’re like me, like so many others, you’ve probably been on a search to finding your way.   Trying to figure “it” out -your purpose, or maybe  figuring out what to do with “it”.  I’ve spent the last eleven years trying so desperately to to find my way, to figure “it” out, to find fulfillment in my work, to find my purpose.

When I review those eleven years  and I see the path I took, although long and sometimes heart wrenching, it was necessary for me to be here today sharing this with you.  There is not enough time or space today to give you specific details of my journey, but I can tell you that in this past year I’ve made incredible progress and for the first time in so many years, I can wholeheartedly tell you that I am happy, whole and inspired.

So,  I’d like to share a few things with you that I’ve found to be important aspects of figuring “it” out.  I hope that you too will find a knowing of clarity and a deep sense of “it” as you read through these seven truths that lie before you.

  1. You find “it” to be fascinating; you can’t learn enough about “it”; you can’t get enough of “it”.
  2. When you speak about “it” your light shines so bright people notice.
  3. You find joy in “it”.
  4. You constantly think about “it”, what “it” can do and/or what you can do with “it”.
  5. You’re passionate about “it”, almost obsessed, but in a fabulous way.
  6. You’ve tried to ignore “it”, forget about “it”, put “it” away in a box, but “it” just won’t stay hidden.
  7. Deep down you know “it” is it, even while you doubt it could be possible.

What is your “it”?  

Allow “it” to come forward and show itself to you.  Take some time and write down these seven truths on a piece of paper and ask yourself what “it” is for each one.  I recommend that you write down your answers and take some time to contemplate “it”.  Don’t worry about the how for now – just be with your “it” for a while.  Allow yourself time to integrate “it” into your consciousness.  Allow it time to germinate so “it” can begin to grow.

Doing this one exercise will bring you awareness, clarity and inspiration.   Even if you already know what your “it” is, do the exercise anyway because you’ll feel a deeper level of knowing, which will spark a flame you’ve not felt before.

Starcell joins us here as she is the Enchanted Elemental who carries the essence of finding your way.  She will help  you spark your purpose and assist you in grounding “it” here in this physical plane.  She’s a great journal buddy too because her flames will fan your imagination and illuminate the path before you.

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  1. Oh, love the site, and your friend Starcell. I am moving into working with my “it”….life and creativity coaching. I love it. My heart has been so full and content since I started doing what I love full time. Thanks for this great post.


  2. Robin I visited this beautiful site yesterday and came back to join your newsletter.Looking forward to seeing your your “it path” continues to unfold for you.

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